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How to Regulate Your Nervous System for High-Stress Situations

How to Regulate Your Nervous System for High-Stress Situations

By
Samantha Shakira Clarke
July 14, 2025
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17 MIN READ

Nervous system regulation is no longer just a wellness buzzword; it's a vital aspect of overall health. It is becoming essential for anyone trying to lead, deliver, or stay clear-headed in today’s high-pressure environments. Think about the last time you felt your heart race before a big meeting, your shoulders tense up during back-to-back calls, or your mind go blank under pressure. These are not random glitches; they are your nervous system doing its job.

But what happens when those stress signals don’t turn off, even after the challenge passes? If you’ve been feeling constantly “on” or slow to recover, your nervous system may be stuck in a state of constant alertness, known as “survival mode”. Let’s take a closer look at what that means and what you can do about it.

Why Nervous System Regulation Is the Real Superpower

Nervous system regulation empowers you to remain calm, focused, and in control under pressure. In high-stakes environments, your ability to stay grounded has a direct impact on your decision-making, emotional intelligence, and leadership presence.

When you activate the parasympathetic nervous system, your body is in rest-and-recover mode. You lower cortisol, increase heart rate variability, and create space to respond instead of react. Regulation helps you feel steady under pressure and recover more quickly after stress has passed.

Why it matters:

  • Improved performance under stress
    Your mind and body function better when not hijacked by the stress response.
  • Greater emotional intelligence
    You’re more equipped to manage conflict, offer empathy, and stay composed.
  • More sustainable leadership
    Regulation helps you pace your energy and avoid burnout over the long term.

What Is the Nervous System, and Why Does It Go Into Overdrive?

Your nervous system is your body’s internal threat detector, built to protect you from danger. It operates through two key branches: the sympathetic nervous system (fight-or-flight response) and the parasympathetic nervous system (rest-and-digest response).

The issue with the nervous system going into overdrive is that today’s stressors, such as traffic, inbox alerts, and deadlines, often trigger the same biological alarm as real physical threats. When these stress responses become constant, the nervous system becomes stuck in a state of high alert and loses its ability to recover fully.

Signs Your Nervous System is Dysregulated

A dysregulated nervous system often shows up as chronic stress symptoms that we’ve learned to normalize. Many professionals operate in a state of survival mode without recognizing that their focus, energy, and mood are being compromised.

These symptoms may be subtle at first, but over time, they contribute to burnout, anxiety, and even physical illness. Recognizing dysregulation is the first step toward restoring balance and building resilience.

Red flags to watch for:

  • Emotional volatility or numbness
    You may find yourself snapping easily or feeling disconnected from your emotions altogether.
  • Sleep disturbances and shallow breathing
    Waking up tired or feeling like you can't catch your breath may be signs your system isn't resting.
  • Cognitive fog or difficulty focusing
    If it feels hard to concentrate, remember things, or stay organized, your nervous system may be maxed out.

Quick-Response Tools to Regulate in the Moment

You can regulate your nervous system in the moment by choosing targeted techniques that interrupt the stress response. These short strategies create physiological shifts that calm the body before the mind catches up.

Start with box breathing, a method where you inhale for four seconds, hold for four seconds, exhale for four seconds, and pause for four seconds. This technique slows the heart rate, balances oxygen levels, and engages the parasympathetic nervous system, your body’s built-in calm switch.

Another tool is visual orientation. Gently scan your surroundings and name five things you can see. This practice helps your brain re-anchor to the present moment and sends the signal that you are safe, not in danger.

You can also try cold exposure. Splashing your face with cold water or holding an ice cube stimulates the vagus nerve. This directly lowers the body’s stress signals and helps shift you out of the fight-or-flight response.

When used consistently, these moment-to-moment resets build familiarity in your system. Over time, they help your body return to balance faster, even when stress hits hard.

Daily Habits to Build Nervous System Resilience

You can build long-term nervous system regulation by creating daily routines that support recovery, safety, and rhythm. As SSC Corporate & Personal Wellness emphasizes, regulation is not just about responding to stress in the moment; it’s about what you consistently practice when things are calm. The more your nervous system experiences safety through simple, repeatable actions, the more resilient it becomes to future stressors. These micro-habits act as anchors, enhancing your system’s ability to recover quickly and effectively.

Foundational habits:

  • Morning light exposure
    Natural light exposure within the first hour of waking helps reset your circadian rhythm and lowers cortisol levels in a healthy, time-sensitive way. This rhythm directly influences the autonomic nervous system (ANS) by aligning your internal body clock with the environment, reducing sympathetic nervous system overactivation, and supporting daily cycles of alertness and rest.
  • Intentional movement
    Gentle physical activities, such as yoga, stretching, or walking, provide proprioceptive input (body awareness signals) that reinforce internal safety. Movement also improves vagal tone, a key function of the parasympathetic nervous system, which supports better emotional regulation, digestion, and heart rate variability. These effects cumulatively help the nervous system shift out of fight-or-flight and into rest-and-recover mode.
  • Coherent breathing
    Breathing in and out for the exact count (such as 5 seconds in, 5 seconds out) helps create a state of coherence between the heart, lungs, and brain. This balanced rhythm activates the parasympathetic nervous system and improves heart rate variability (HRV), a core marker of nervous system resilience. According to research from Harvard Medical School, slow, controlled breathing helps modulate the stress response more effectively over time.

Regulating for Specific High-Pressure Settings

You can tailor your nervous system regulation depending on the type of stress you’re facing. Different situations activate different responses, so the key is using tools that match the moment. Whether you're presenting to a crowd or recovering from a long day, choosing the proper technique helps you stay grounded and responsive, rather than reactive.

The Long-Term Benefits of a Regulated Nervous System

A consistently regulated nervous system does more than help you handle stress in the moment; it creates lasting physical, emotional, and cognitive strength. Over time, this internal stability becomes the foundation for clearer thinking, better sleep, improved immunity, and more grounded leadership.

One of the most critical long-term indicators of nervous system health is heart rate variability (HRV). According to Harvard Medical School, improved HRV reflects greater adaptability and resilience in the face of stress. It means your body can shift between high alertness and deep rest with flexibility—a key marker of emotional and physiological balance.

Nervous system regulation also enhances relational intelligence. When your system feels safe, you can listen without defensiveness, express yourself without feeling overwhelmed, and engage in challenging conversations without shutting down. These are essential capacities for leadership, parenting, caregiving, and teamwork. Over the long term, individuals who prioritize nervous system care tend to experience fewer stress-related illnesses, reduced anxiety, and increased sustainable energy. Breathwork, movement, mindfulness, and quality rest aren’t just quick fixes; they are long-game investments in your resilience and vitality. For more on integrating these habits into leadership and work culture, see our blog on How Inner Child Work Can Improve Leadership.

Nervous system symptoms reported by Canadian employees (2024)

Chronic stress is taking a measurable toll on Canadian employees. From burnout to cognitive fatigue, these symptoms point to deeper issues with nervous system dysregulation in the workplace. Recognizing these patterns isn’t just about awareness; it’s the first step toward intervention. The data below highlights the widespread nature of these physiological stress responses across various industries.

Source:  Mental Health Research Canada

When nervous system health is supported in the workplace, performance, innovation, and psychological safety all improve.

Conclusion: Calm is a Skill You Can Train

If you’re constantly feeling overwhelmed, reactive, or mentally drained, your nervous system may be stuck in survival mode. High-pressure environments, emotional demands, and unpredictable challenges can wear down even the most resilient individuals, unless their bodies are equipped to recover effectively. Without the tools to self-regulate, performance declines, relationships strain, and burnout become harder to avoid.

That’s where SSC Corporate & Personal Wellness comes in. Our coaching and wellness programs help you retrain your nervous system to respond with clarity, not chaos. We combine science-backed techniques with real-life strategies that enhance focus, energy, and emotional balance, all tailored to you or your team.

Book a free discovery call or email us at team@samanthashakiraclarke.com to explore how we can build your resilience toolkit. Calm is not a luxury. It’s your competitive edge.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Samantha Shakira Clarke

Sammy's story is one of grit, heart, and healing. After leaving home at 12 and overcoming addiction, she found her way back to herself through movement, mindfulness, and a deep commitment to growth.

Now a wellness facilitator, speaker, and lifelong student of the mind-body connection, Sammy works with Fortune 500 companies, nonprofits, and individuals alike — blending lived experience and science to help people regulate, reconnect, and lead with compassion. Her work is grounded in one mission: to connect people back to themselves, and teams to each other.